* Sixty-eight
percent of texters surveyed admitted to sending a love note
via text messaging.
* Sixty-seven percent have used text messaging to flirt.
* Fifty-two percent said "thinking of you" is the
most common text message received from a date or spouse.
* Twenty-eight percent indicated that they text at least three
times a day with a significant other or spouse.
Love
at First Text
Exchanging
text messages before a first date can help put everyone at ease.
Texting also allows you to be more clever and thoughtful in
what you say.
* Thirty-four
percent of texters in a relationship or dating agreed they would
be more comfortable on a first date if they received a text
message beforehand.
* Twenty-six percent agreed that someone would be more likely
to accept a first date with them if they have exchanged text
messages first.
* Fifty-eight percent admitted they have at least occasionally
shown a friend a text message from a suitor to get his or her
interpretation.
* Thirty-eight percent admitted that their wireless phone has
saved them from an uncomfortable dating situation.
Love
Hurts
Texting
for love isn't without its challenges. One of the great things
about texting during a new relationship is the time it allows
you to collect your thoughts and your courage before initiating
communication. On the flip side, it also could possibly create
uncertainty and frustration if the recipient of the message
waits too long to respond.
* Eighty-four
percent of those surveyed believe that text messages can sometimes
be misunderstood by a date or suitor.
* Twenty-four percent said the biggest turnoff when texting
with a date or a spouse is a slow response.
* Eighty-two percent, however, said they answer a text message
immediately or as quickly as possible.
* One-third of texters who are in a relationship or dating indicated
they would get upset if a date/spouse responded to a wireless
call while on a date, although 44 percent admitted to answering
their wireless phone while on a date.
Love
Through the Ages
It's not
easy getting back in the love game after sitting on the sidelines
for a while. There are many adults who find themselves single
again and are quickly learning that the rules of engagement,
as well as the tools of engagement, have changed over the years.
Sending text messages to flirt, make romantic plans and, in
some extreme cases, to break up is completely alien to many
of a certain age.
So just
how does age factor into adults' views of texting and dating?
* Thirty-seven
percent of respondents who are 18-35 said they text at least
three times a day with their significant other compared with
22 percent of those who are 36-55.
* Seventy-four percent of respondents who are 18-35 have flirted
via text messaging compared with 60 percent of those who are
36-55.
* Twenty-six percent of respondents ages 18-35 admitted to texting
more than one person at a time to invite them on a date or for
other romantic reasons, but only 7 percent of those who are
36-55 have done the same.
* Thirty percent of respondents ages 18-35 have texted friends
and family to update them on a blind date compared with 19 percent
of respondents who are 36-55.
AT&T's
2008 text dating survey was conducted by Synovate via an online
consumer opinion panel of 1,000 adults ages 18-55 in May 2008.